Sometimes it can be difficult to determine whether or not your relationship is built on love, or lust. Question yourself on some of these below.
It's lust if:
You're totally focused on looks and body even before you know their name.
You're already fantasizing about what he/she looks like naked and what it would be like to have sex with her/him.
You don't care about anything she/he has to say, It wouldn't make a difference to you if you never had a conversation with them. Furthermore, you don't bother to return calls promptly and you can easily go for days without talking to her/him -- until you get horny again that is.
You only want to be with her/him to have sex and you make excuses not to spend time with them, except for sex.
If he/she asks you for a favor, you say you're too busy. But if you have to be with them and not have sex, he/she gets on your nerves and you find yourself fantasizing about other women.
He/She's your booty call.
After you go out trolling for tail with your buddies on Friday night, you then call at 1 a.m. for some drunken action. Ah, the booty call.You leave after sex.
After having sex with her/him, you look for the easiest way to leave. No cuddling, no breakfast the next morning, just "I gotta go."
It's love if:
You have great chemistry.
You get lost in your conversations, and the hours pass like minutes.
You're more than willing to listen to him/her when they talk about their day.
The chemistry between you is remarkable.
You find him/her beautiful/handsome even if you catch her with no makeup on and her hair pulled back while she's unclogging a toilet, she still looks beautiful to you.
You want to spend time with them.
All you want to do is to be with him/her, whether you're having sex or not.
Even if he/she tells you that sex will have to wait, you don't care.
You see a future together.
You experience the strange feeling that your life would be totally empty without them.
You tell your friends and family that he/she may be The One, and you're even thinking about marrying him/her.
You introduce him/her to your family.
It becomes very important to you that your parents like them, and that they get along with everyone close to you.
You include him/her in all your plans whether you're going out with your friends or taking your dog for a walk, you want them there with you.
And if she's not there, you can't get him/her off your mind and sneak off to give them a quick "I miss you" phone call.
Of course, you don't tell your buddies. You are more romantic and all of a sudden you find yourself listening to cheesy romantic songs and thinking of him/her.
You send presents and love notes to work and set up romantic evenings candlelit dinners at home.
You always take their side if someone says anything even slightly disparaging about them, you immediately rise to their defense.
Furthermore, in social gatherings, you always agree with him/her even if you disagree behind closed doors. They make you want to be a better man or woman.
He/She challenges and motivates you, makes you happy, and you'd do anything to make him/her happy.
Does it sound like your in love or lust now???
Life Of Mental
